Write it down instead of interrupting
While someone speaks to the end, WRITE DOWN your questions instead of cutting in. Half will turn out moot — the speaker answers them anyway.
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Interrupting has two roots: excitement to add your two cents, and (more important) weaker working memory — fear you’ll forget the thought. A simple rule helps (in a group and 1-on-1): while someone speaks, everyone writes down what they want to ask. The funny payoff — half the questions become moot because the speaker already answered them.
You can openly pull out your phone: ‘One sec, I’m noting this so I don’t forget’ — it relieves tension on both sides.
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- Consequences of cognitive offloading: Boosting performance but diminishing memorystudy · 2021
- Cognitive-behavioural interventions for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) in adultsreview · 2018