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Detective technique: hunt the catalyst and test RSD from the outside

On a blow-up, hunt for 'the seagull that pushed you off the cliff' — what happened EARLIER, not the last visible thing. And on RSD catastrophizing ('I'll get fired') run the third-person test: 'if a colleague sent that email, would they get fired?'.

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Two ‘detective’ moves for out-of-proportion reactions:

  1. Hunt the catalyst, not the last spark. A visible blow-up is usually the final straw after accumulated overwhelm — ‘the seagull that pushed you off the cliff’. The wrong spoon isn’t the real cause. Ask what difficulties and triggers showed up EARLIER, instead of reacting to the stated, surface cause. (This is the twin of trigger stacking.)

  2. Third-person test for RSD. When RSD turns a trifle into a ‘big bad shadow’ (‘I’ll get fired over this email’), break the situation down and ask: ‘if a colleague had sent exactly this, would they get fired?’. The outside view removes the personal-threat distortion and right-sizes the stakes (‘no, nobody gets fired for that’).

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Scientific grade verified against the literature. No entries = no direct studies (graded from mechanism/experience).

What the grade means

A A — strongest evidence: meta-analyses or RCTs directly confirm it works (or, for diagnostic tools, strong validation of accuracy).
B B — good evidence: a single RCT, or a strong mechanism with supporting studies.
C C — weak / preliminary: a plausible mechanism, but few direct, controlled tests.
D D — no evidence: theory or isolated anecdotes, no studies.
Applies to: ADHD Autism AuDHD