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Ask for the details before you spiral

When someone says 'let's talk later', ask for the details now ('I know I'll overthink this — just give me clarity'), because your imagined version can be 50x worse than reality.

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The RSD brain catastrophises in an information vacuum: the absence of content gets filled with the darkest scenario. A concrete technique: when someone drops ‘let’s talk later’, immediately ask for the details now — ‘I have ADHD/rejection sensitivity, I’ll definitely overthink this; can we do two minutes? just tell me what it’s about’.

It works because the actual content removes the vacuum the brain fills with the worst case. It helps to pre-brief your team/partner so they tell you the topic of any pending conversation up front — your imagined version can be 50 times worse than what it really is.

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Scientific grade verified against the literature. No entries = no direct studies (graded from mechanism/experience).

What the grade means

A A — strongest evidence: meta-analyses or RCTs directly confirm it works (or, for diagnostic tools, strong validation of accuracy).
B B — good evidence: a single RCT, or a strong mechanism with supporting studies.
C C — weak / preliminary: a plausible mechanism, but few direct, controlled tests.
D D — no evidence: theory or isolated anecdotes, no studies.
Applies to: ADHD AuDHD