You don't have to read the whole book (close the unhelpful story)
When your brain spins a distressing narrative (e.g. rumination before sleep), you don't have to finish it. Notice it as 'a story you're telling yourself', ask one question — 'is this story helping me?' — and if not, deliberately drop it. You're the author of this book, so you can close it halfway.
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The inner narrator in ADHD can be loud and likes to crank up worst-case scenarios, especially in the evening. Instead of taking intrusive rumination as fact, treat it as a story, and since you’re its author, you’re under no obligation to read it to the end.
Procedure: (1) notice that you’re ‘reading a book’ right now, telling yourself a story; (2) ask one question: ‘is this story helping me?’; (3) if not, tell yourself ‘okay, let’s drop that story’ and deliberately stop; keep going only on narratives that serve you.
This is a therapy technique, not forcibly switching thoughts off. It’s about consciously closing one specific, unhelpful tale instead of letting it run to its worst ending.
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- The Impact of Treatment Components Suggested by the Psychological Flexibility Model: A Meta-Analysis of Laboratory-Based Component Studies (Levin, Hildebrandt, Lillis, & Hayes)meta-analysis · 2012
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Improves Sleep Quality, Experiential Avoidance, and Emotion Regulation in Individuals with Insomnia — a Randomized Interventional Study (Salari et al.)RCT · 2020
- Efficacy of cognitive behavioral therapy in treating repetitive negative thinking, rumination, and worry – a transdiagnostic meta-analysismeta-analysis · 2023
- Acceptance and commitment therapy for individuals having attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD): A scoping reviewreview · 2021