Tell people how your brain works
Say it plainly: 'this'll take me 13× more energy than it would Kasia — let's find another way'. It's an energy strategy, not an excuse.
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It’s easy to assume ‘if I’m like this, others are too’ — and most difficulty comes from NOT telling people how your brain works. Say it plainly to collaborators: ‘this’ll take me much more energy and time than others on the team — let’s find another solution’. Benefits: naming a difficulty triggers a search for a better approach instead of grinding through; people stop expecting what you won’t give; the game gets fair.
Important: this is NOT ‘I can’t, I have ADHD’ as a blanket excuse — you needn’t even mention ADHD. Just ‘my brain doesn’t handle this, I need it simpler / written / drawn’, paired with pointing to what you’ll do excellently. Speak of both weaknesses and strengths.
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- A systematic review and meta-analysis of mental health outcomes associated with camouflaging in autistic peoplemeta-analysis · 2024
- Burnout as experienced by autistic people: A systematic reviewreview · 2025
- Autistic adults' experiences of diagnostic disclosure in the workplace: Decision-making and factors associated with outcomesstudy · 2022
- A Neuroaffirmative, Self-Determination Theory-Based Psychosocial Intervention for Adults With ADHD: Randomized Feasibility StudyRCT · 2025