Name overstimulation and plan your exit
When you feel overstimulated, say it aloud ('I'm overstimulated, I'm stepping out for 10 minutes') — and learn to spot the CIRCUMSTANCES of risk, to plan your exit in advance.
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Overstimulation in neurodivergent people is a form of shutdown — and the best remedy is to name it aloud: ‘just so you know, I’m feeling a bit overstimulated, I’m heading out for a 10-minute breather’. Then people understand what’s happening and don’t take your snappiness personally; simply saying it defuses the ‘snap → shame’ cycle.
The second, more important level: don’t wait until it’s happening — learn to recognise the circumstances likely to trigger it (lots of people, noise, drilling in the background). Walking into such a space, assess the risk, ask ‘how long do I need to be here?’, and plan your exit in advance, before your capacity hits its limit and the last straw breaks the camel’s back.
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- Putting Feelings Into Words: Affect Labeling Disrupts Amygdala Activity in Response to Affective Stimulistudy · 2007
- Antecedent-Based Interventions (ABI) — evidence-based practice brief / VCU Autism Center fact sheetreview · 2020
- Experiences of Sensory Overload and Communication Barriers by Autistic Adults in Health Care Settingsstudy · 2022
- Navigating Autistic Shutdown and Burnout Through a Neurodiversity-Affirming Approachreview · 2024