Energy audit: must-vs-want, parking lot, fresh day
Ask whether the BODY can carry what the HEAD signed up for. Keep a 'parking lot' for what you consciously won't do, and start each day from zero.
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A few levers for managing energy:
• ‘Parking lot’ — a list of tasks you consciously accept won’t happen this week; accepting what you WON’T do reduces guilt and mental churn. • ‘Your head thinks the body can do more than it can’ — ask whether the body will actually carry what you just signed up for. • ‘Must because I must’ vs ‘must because I want’ — want-tasks fuel energy for the hard ones; strip them away and the motivation to get up tomorrow collapses. • ‘Tomorrow is a new game’ — don’t roll undone tasks into a guilt pile; wipe the board and design the next day from zero.
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- Burnout as experienced by autistic people: A systematic review (Ali et al.)review · 2025
- Mindful Self-Compassion Training Reduces Stress and Burnout Symptoms: A Randomized Controlled Trial of a Brief Web-Based Intervention (Eriksson et al.)RCT · 2018
- A Randomized Controlled Trial of Group-Based Acceptance and Commitment Therapy / ACT for work-related rumination and job fatigueRCT · 2024
- Studying Motivation in ADHD: The Role of Internal Motives and the Relevance of Self-Determination Theory (Morsink et al.)review · 2022