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A hard timer on dating apps

Unlimited swiping feeds dopamine spirals — set yourself a hard time limit (e.g. 30 minutes in the evening) and stop when the timer rings.

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Unlimited-swipe dating apps (Tinder/Bumble/Hinge) deliver a micro-dopamine hit per like and match. In ADHD brains the dopamine-seeking makes swiping compulsive. Instead of fighting the impulse, cap exposure with time: set a fixed daily timer (e.g. 30 minutes in the evening) and treat it as an investment — ‘I’m giving myself this much time for dating online and that’s it’. When the timer rings, you’re done. You can leave notifications on so you don’t seem rude by missing replies.

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A A — strongest evidence: meta-analyses or RCTs directly confirm it works (or, for diagnostic tools, strong validation of accuracy).
B B — good evidence: a single RCT, or a strong mechanism with supporting studies.
C C — weak / preliminary: a plausible mechanism, but few direct, controlled tests.
D D — no evidence: theory or isolated anecdotes, no studies.
Applies to: ADHD AuDHD