A hard timer on dating apps
Unlimited swiping feeds dopamine spirals — set yourself a hard time limit (e.g. 30 minutes in the evening) and stop when the timer rings.
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Unlimited-swipe dating apps (Tinder/Bumble/Hinge) deliver a micro-dopamine hit per like and match. In ADHD brains the dopamine-seeking makes swiping compulsive. Instead of fighting the impulse, cap exposure with time: set a fixed daily timer (e.g. 30 minutes in the evening) and treat it as an investment — ‘I’m giving myself this much time for dating online and that’s it’. When the timer rings, you’re done. You can leave notifications on so you don’t seem rude by missing replies.
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- Smartphone screen time reduction improves mental health: a randomized controlled trialRCT · 2025
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- Dating Apps & ADHD: Navigating Executive Dysfunction in the Swipe Erastudy · 2024